Anyway, I logged in and found emails from pretty much everyone in my address book asking if I’d been hacked / had a virus! Turns out there had been nearly 2,000 spam emails sent from my address! Oh yes! Someone had been busy! I set about making it right. I sent a personal message to everyone who had emailed to apologise, explain it wasn’t me and asked if they were ok etc (the usual stuff). Score settled.
This morning, whilst checking again, I got a reply from someone. An ex-boyfriend!
Take in to consideration what my email said….
“Hey,So, his response was…..
Sorry, I've not checked this account in months and it looks
as though someone hacked it. They only used it for 2 days though,
strange.
Anyway, sorry again!
Jen x”
“Lol, that’s ok. Glad you emailed. You seem happy. Everything
ok?
Hope the Audi’s keeping you happy!
xx”
WTF? I remember, word for word, that my last email to him had read “don’t you think you’re new girlfriend would be a little upset if she knew you were still emailing your ex-girlfriend?”, and I meant it in the nicest possible way.
Soldier (let’s call him that – good name, lol, yeah, he was a soldier BTW) had been a little too smitten with me and I’ve never been good at being smothered! I preferred a bit of a relaxed attitude and that’s what I would give back – it’s all in the chase boys!
Soldier is the only person I’ve ever cheated on (I hear you gasp…I know, you knew I was too good to be true (lol))…that’s another story and I definitely got my comeuppance eventually! But even after that he still wanted to carry on with the relationship. Is this boy not a little desperate? Or am I being too harsh?
BTW the Audi reference was as I had a brand spanking new one last time we spoke (3-effing years ago) – until someone rammed my car of a motorway and it was written off – I was in fact heart broken!
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15 comments:
arrrrggggh ex's tht crawl out of woodwork annoy the shit out of me.if u not in my life its for a reason!
i secretly like to think they agonised for ages wot to type in an e-mail or text
I am just going to say that you never know. Maybe he has changed a bit over the years, a few e mails never hurt.
oh exes...so much fun... i don't think he's being desperate, maybe it was just a chance to get back in touch with you :) nothing wrong with being friends!
You guys are too kind! Seriously, I was irrationally irritated by the email (I'm not normally like this I swear!). I prefer men with some balls (ok, maybe the wrong word - he was in the army, he clearly has balls...but you know what I mean). He is just one of those people that is too nice for his own good! I was so so so horrid to him, we split up over the phone (better than email or txt) and he kept trying to come back for more!
You readers, who are usually very much on the ball, have failed to notice I mentioned 2 things had happened and I totally forgot to post the 2nd! xx
Oo an ex emailed you.... I bet he probably thought a billion times about what to say in that email. hehehehe...but yeah about someone hacking into your account...tsk tsk...I think someone hacked into mine too. Someone I don't even know is sending me emails and is sending everyone in my friends list emails as well. Then I checked my mail and got another email from that same person sending me the same message and sending the message to my officemates as well...weird!
@ Mel - I got fed-up typing and forgot to add that they had set my signature as an effing email as well. So I went in this morning, went to reply to an email and this, about, 30-line email came up where it usually just says "jen xx"! Excellent! I have since changed my password! Don't you just love hackers! Thanks for following!! x
Wow, getting in touch with and hearing from old flames seems to be a recurring theme around the blog parts lately, even if it's for all kinds of different reasons!
I've learned the hard way that ex's are ex's for a reason. Maybe he wants to be friends?
hmmm...if an ex is trying to get in touch with you it's probably not just to be friends. Especially since he was so insanely clingy last time.
I had a girl who cheated on me email me after a couple of years, she emailed me 'just to say hi.' And of course to tell me that she was now married. I tried to keep my responses brief so she would get the hint that I didn't want to talk to her, but after a couple of inane email exchanges she was asking me why I had never told her I loved her. And why I didn't try to get back together with her. my advice? Stay away.
Also, how did he get that you were happy from what you wrote?
Right back @ The Civilian - This is completely my point! Without wanting to sound harsh...how on earth did he get that I was happy from the email? Almost like that was made up just for something to email about...when really I didn't want a reply! x
Ugh, why is it that some ex's just feel the need to contact us when it's OVER?! I wrote something similar to this today on my blog. Seriously, so annoying!
I've never ever cheated on anybody, so I'd reaaally like to know your story :P I'm curious about what it feels like, I'm sure it must be worth reading!
It could be that he just really cared about you and couldn’t let go?? And no you are not being ridiculous! And I have emailed my ex a couple times since we broke up- actually he's sent me some too...there's nothing wrong with it at all. altho, now im curious...u might have to post about this
Boys are dumb. They repeatedly remind me of that almost every day.
Hmmm. Ex-boyfriends are always interesting. At the very least, they're good blog fodder.
I say just let it go. Don't bother replying to his email, just in case he gets the wrong impression. (This coming from a girl who clearly is still seeing her most current ex!)
And, I don't judge you on the cheating thing. I've done it before and I've had it done to me before. Cheating is just a symptom of something seriously wrong with the relationship. It's life. I am, however, interested in hearing that story now!
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